NEW Oral Sex (Eating Pussy) Manual for Lovers [excerpt]

“Her clitoris can be too sensitive to touch....”

Okay, so with this is mind, the clitoris can, at times, be too sensitive to stimulate by direct touch; especially, in the early stages of your female’s arousal.

So, my immediate thoughts include:

§ Blowing your warm breath across her, or

§ Gently touching her with something VERY soft—soft feather or silk, perhaps. Yum.

§ Or, just be patient and help her warm up and “get her blood flowing,” so to speak.

In case you didn’t know, many women, in masturbating throughout their lives, often only apply pressure on the OUTER side of her Venus Mound, without direct touch on her clitoral area.

Or some use flat fingered friction and gentle pressure of their fingers.

So, when you start poking around with blunt; hard cock; hard nailed, rough fingertips; and hard tongues, she just may find it unpleasant.

Think the kind of unpleasantness you get when you take a bandage off a wound that’s basically healed, but is still overly pink, and sensitive. You put a bandage back on it. But, she can’t quite do that.

Ripping it off would be horrific!

So, basically, it all depends on how sensitive she is, how sensitive her clit is at that moment, and how soon you get to that area.

In fact, it’s often best to begin with a gentler, less direct and straight to clit-focused stimulation of her vulval area, starting with her labial lips and the whole genital area; or the insides of her sensitive to kisses and other affection attention thighs.

Hey, my friend, she has an ENTIRE body “wonderland” for you to play with and inspire to joy; besides:

§ According to Dr. Seymour Fisher in his “The Female Orgasm,” of 300 women surveyed, 80% NEEDED masturbation or oral stimulation, also, during standard intercourse, IN ORDER TO ORGASM (in order to come / cum), at all.

This is while engaging in regular, vanilla sex.

Yes, standard, traditional vaginal [cock in cunt] sex, and not during anything fancy and intimidating.

The EXACT same thing was previously confirmed DECADES before, by our famously infamous Dr. Alfred Kinsey in his thorough and still quite current “Kinsey Report” (1948 and 1953), which was the FIRST OFFICIAL STUDY OF SEX, EVER.

Yeah. That recent. Dr. Freud made us neurotic about it, with unsupported, misinterpreted word of mouth, but didn’t officially study it.

Also check out Dr. Debora Phillips’ writings of her more recent “Sexual Confidence”, as well.[1]

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“Oral sex gets around issues of…”

“Oral sex gets around issues of [uncontrolled spasms], low energy, problems with erections, positioning needs, lubrication [which can alter genital taste], and anything that makes penetration difficult or uncomfortable [or painful].”

—The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability[2]

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HELPING HER RELAX and PREPARE.

Don’t make it a long, harsh campaign, but here are a few things to help you help her to relax and prepare for your ecstatic, pleasurable cunnilingus fun for two.

“Prolonged Foreplay/Diddling. Or Fun, Creative Stuff!”

Start with the simple, sensual, and kind stuff.

Brush her hair.

Give her a gentle head and neck massage.

Touch and caress all her erogenous zones, such as: skin, lips, spine, neck, shoulders, etc.

But do stay away from the more racy bits, like buttocks, thighs, and breasts, until she’s warmed up to you and how you’re making her feel with the less sexualized bits of her.

Better yet, make your seduction an all day affair, with sexy phone calls, text messages, snail mail cards or letters, if you REALLY planned ahead, email, flowers, horseback riding or other things she, as an individual, loves and is excited about can prepare her all day to be with you.

Without protest.

You may even have to go to the opera. Or cuddle up and watch female talk television, instead a male sports / news / add useless banter type here television.

But, she’s worth it, to you.

But also, do be careful. Job place IT departments do monitor ALL emails and such on their company equipment; so, watch what you say in your love messages sent through company owned lines.

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[1] Hayden, Naura. How to Satisfy a Woman EVERY Time ... and Have Her Beg for More! New York: Bibli O’Phile Books, Inc., 2001. And also Hayden, Naura. How to Satisfy a Man EVERY Time ... and Have Him Beg for More! New York: Kensington Books, 1999.

[2] Kaufman MD, Miriam, Cory Silverberg M.Ed, and Fran Odette MSW. The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability. San Francisco: Cleis, 2003. (Kaufman, Silverberg, and Odette p. 151)

From Neale Sourna's CuntSinger [http://www.cuntsinger.com]

NEW Creative Cunnilingus Love Manual (Excerpt 2)

“Taste Yourself.”

Don’t be such a wuss; not you and not her.

Know how you taste, whether male or female, because I find the best way for a man or woman of any age to know what they smell and taste like, for certain, and to become familiar with their normal healthy genital scents and tastes, is to smell and taste their own fluids; especially off their fingers after finger masturbation.

A woman, especially, will notice, for her own information and confident knowledge, that her pleasant, human scent(s) and flavor(s) slightly change throughout her hormonal month, especially depending on what she eats or drinks, or what worries and illnesses she has may have influencing change, too.

And, this isn’t one-sided.

Men, too, can change flavor and scents, most often with the food, drink, or smokes they put into their bodies. Excess red meats, hard drink, and smokes can sour and bitter a man’s semen smell and flavor. So, white meats, fruit juices, and NO SMOKES, fellas, and you’ll be more delectable, too.

Cunnilingus: Definition.

Okay. Hadn’t really occurred to me, until now; but, for those who didn’t know....

Cunnilingus (kun’-nih-lin’-gus) is the action of using one’s mouth, normally lips and tongue, but not teeth, to stimulate to excitement and arouse a female’s genitals for her sexual pleasure; in particular, the clitoris (klit’-ore-iss) is noted as the most sexually sensitive part of her female genitalia.

Author and sex surveyist Shere Hite noted, from her researches, that most women can achieve orgasm easily from clitoral stimulation, especially by cunnilingus.[1]

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This normally tiny, gumdrop-like or button-like organ, at least the tiny portion that’s visible outside the body, because there’s much more of it within her body, much like with the male’s penis, and is positioned frontmost on the female human, hidden behind and beneath the bottommost portion of her Mound of Venus, upon which lies her triangular pubic hair area.

The exterior (outside) labia majora (major lips) of the vulva, which are covered with pubic hair, can be parted to expose the clitoris, which lies specifically just inside the front point, where the hairless left and right inner labia minora (minor lips) come together, normally forming a small little hill, or tucked area (clitoral hood, much like the hood that covers a penis, before circumcision).

This clitoral hood functions the same, it covers and protects her sensitive clitoral head.

Her clitoris/clit lies immediately before her tiny urethra opening, from which she urinates (pees) and which lies between the gumdrop like clit and the larger vaginal entrance.

The clitoris has a similar function as the male penis, but her clit doesn’t contain interior portions of the urethra, as the penis does, nor function directly for procreation, like semen dispensing in the male.

The clitoris’ ONLY job is to stimulate sexual pleasure within her.

So, with besides when taking the matter in hand, with masturbation techniques, when her clitoris is usually brought into play, cunnilingus results in MORE SUCCESSFUL FEMALE ORGASMS than with any other sexual technique.

And pleasure is good; because we all know that pleasure makes us want to have that pleasure and more pleasure again; TO HAVE SEX AGAIN.

That’s good, right? Great even.

So, RESPECT HER CLIT, it makes her just as happy as a guy who loves the pleasure his cockhead gives him.

Basic Skills and Stats.

Just like in singing, and all pleasures from vocalizing, both the basic and finesse skills used in cunnilingus and individual female responses to those skills are all over the place; but, can be improved with study, relaxation, and practice.

Web cunnilingus sex author Crid Lee gives this stat:

§ 88% of married women say cunnilingus is their preferred form of sexual activity.

The clitoris is the most sexually sensitive part of the female body for almost all women. (There can be variations because of sickness, injury, or personal sensitivities.)

§ There’re 8,000 nerve endings in a woman’s tiny clitoris! Equal to or more—depending on who’s counting—than on the comparatively huge head of a penis glans (4,000). Making it the most highly sensitive organ in female or male.

It surpasses other highly sensitive human body parts: the lips, tongue (good for you), hands, and inner thighs (especially on a woman).

“Her clitoris can be too sensitive to touch....”

Okay, so with this is mind, the clitoris can, at times, be too sensitive to stimulate by direct touch; especially, in the early stages of your female’s arousal.

So, my immediate thoughts include:

§ Blowing your warm breath across her, or

§ Gently touching her with something VERY soft—soft feather or....

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[1] Hite, Shere (2004 edition). The Hite Report: A Nationwide Study of Female Sexuality. New York, NY: Seven Stories Press. pp. 11. ISBN 1-58322-569-2.

--excerpt from Neale Sourna's CuntSinger

Egypt outlaws all female circumcision

CAIRO (AFP) - Egypt on Thursday finally banned all female circumcision, the widely-practised removal of the clitoris which just days ago cost the life of a 12-year-old girl.

Officially the practice, which affects both Muslim and Christian women in Egypt and goes back to the time of the pharoahs, was banned in 1997 but doctors were allowed to operate "in exceptional cases".

On Thursday, Health Minister Hatem al-Gabali decided to ban every doctor and member of the medical profession, in public or private establishments, from carrying out a clitoridectomy, a ministry press official told AFP.

Any circumcision "will be viewed as a violation of the law and all contraventions will be punished," said the official, adding that it was a "permanent ban".

A survey in 2000 said the practice was carried out on 97 percent of the country's women.

In the latest fatality, 12-year-old Bedur Ahmed Shaker was taken by her mother to a private clinic in Minya, a town on the Nile south of Cairo, for the operation. She died before she could be transferred to hospital.

Her mother accused the woman doctor of negligence, charging that her daughter's death was linked to the anaesthetic and not the removal of the clitoris, for which she had paid 50 pounds (nearly nine dollars). Police have arrested both women.