Fifty shades DARKER is a misnomer. This story is actually BRIGHTER, LIGHTER.
So, if fifty #1 made you squirm too much, read this one instead, it's
softer, the lovers are more equal and understand their differences much
better. There's more trust based in knowledge and therefore faith, more
getting to the center of what his past is about, and less worry about
her virgin to sub growth or de-evolvement, as many I've heard were
afraid for her about.
She's fine. She's stronger than he is and
she's pulling HIM upward. Stop chickening out and try this one, and
really read and understand the explanations. We mislabel things in our
heads and hearts, Christian does too. What we say about ourselves isn't
always the actual us. That's covered here.
And
explaining the "lifestyle" and experimenting with "vanilla" with a dash
of, well, soft "lifestyle" will be more palatable and a better starter
for many.
Then, perhaps, you can backtrack to number one, once
you really understand this isn't the abusive, evil stuff that gets you
on the news or in jail.
Oh, and not "Mommy Porn" it should be
"Daddy Porn." If dad wants to get more and keep his lady wife happier
perhaps he should take a few lessons on creativity, trust, and obedience
from CG as he tantalizes, pleases, and fully obeys Ana in their most
intimate moments. She can say "no" anytime or and he obeys. And when she
says "yes," he makes it interesting, creative, explorative, and
emotionally fulfilling, not just missionary sex boring.
No wonder I've heard so many women say they loved CG but were not so kind to virginal, sexually ignorant Ana--too close to home?
There
are few women who wouldn't want a man who enjoys extended foreplay
diddling AND afterglow all night cuddling. Oh, wait, these are FICTIONAL
people. But they have much to teach us about our own love giving and
emotionally sexual "hard and soft limits."Labels: abusive, ana, christian, creative, daddy porn, e.l. james, emotional, fifty shades darker, hard, limit, mislabel, misnomer, mommy porn, sex, soft, trust